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I said I was going to bed, then I get a response from my Hugh Jazz…I can take it a lot harder than that Hugh…feel free to tell me what you really feel because I don't disagree with anything that you just said. Where do you think that we differ? Perhaps you were thinking that no one should get hurt ideally? Yeah…this is love we're talking about…someone's going to get hurt, I don't have the expectation of no pain. I do however have the expectation of no intentional pain in exchange for a lil pleasure on your part.
You are right, you followed protocol exactly and I can't find fault at all with the story you presented to me. She fell in love, which she had little control over. You didn't love her, which you have little control over. You parted ways before things got any deeper. Textbook. As you don't want to see her cry, she doesn't want to cry, but that's love. The risks are great, but I believe the rewards are greater still.
And I could not agree with this anymore if I tried: "If you're not built for casual relationships, don't get involved."
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Hugh Jazz says:
August 29, 2011 at 11:44 am
I guess with your clarification, maybe we don't disagree. It first appeared you were mad because you get hurt when a good guy withdraws from you, but that doesn't appear to be the case.
I think the issue is I'm comparing my past situation to how you actually feel. Some women just can't take rejection, or sometimes think the rejection is about them personally.
starita34 says: